And because my Master knows me so well, better than all the other Sirs and Mistresses I know or have known, he gives me that quiet time I need to embrace what I call my ‘moment of submission.’
Being bound, blindfolded or gagged is not necessary for me to get there, but each alone helps me reach that focal point.
The isolation or sensory deprivation helps me still my outside thoughts and center within myself first, then move that central point of focus to serving or pleasing him.
So yes, my Master keeps me waiting, and yes anticipation can breed frustration. But he knows that when he returns, he will have my undivided attention.
—subkatie